Our brain remembers things fast when things arouse our emotions: anxiety, sadness, affection, etc. And these memories also last long.
Intuition feelings exist long before language is created, it is the leader when we make decisions and logical reasoning is the following process to find evidence to support our intuition.
It is not easy for us to change our first impression or intuition; we typically resort to supporting evidence for our first judgment, especially when we are confronted with opponents, leading to emotional uncomfortable or anger.